One Author’s Definition

Dear So Many Books:

Thanks so much for having me on your blog.

I used to think of women’s fiction as the classics like The Bell Jar by Sylvia Plath or The Color Purple by Alice Walker, but now my definition has broadened. I would start by saying that women’s fiction is fiction written by women, i.e., men don’t write women’s fiction. Men can certainly portray female characters expertly, but they can’t, and they don’t, write women’s fiction. Conversely, just because a book is fiction and is written by a woman, I don’t think that necessarily makes it women’s fiction; women could write historical fiction, romances, mysteries, thrillers, or generic literary fiction. Here are the ingredients I like to see in women’s fiction:

One: A strong female protagonist. I think women’s fiction should center on female characters. And all good stories involve taking our characters and putting them in a world of trouble early on in the story. As soon as we have developed them sufficiently so that our reader knows what the baseline of their life is like, we want to shift the stable baseline and give them a ton of seemingly insoluble problems. And the women shouldn’t always be looking to the men for the answers. In real life, we want to avoid drama, but in fiction, there is no story without conflicts, internal and external.

Two: Character growth. I like to see people change, preferably for the better, but not necessarily. It’s nice to watch the female characters grow in the story, but sometimes life batters us and beats us down, and we may appear to be worse off at the end than the beginning, but the character has changed and, hopefully, learned something.

Three. Female bonding. The best women’s fiction allows women to value other women as much as the men in their lives and reveres female friendships. I have made friendship the central theme of my book Finding Lisa to illustrate several points, one of which is that friendship is often devalued in our society even though most all of the women I know would be bereft and lost without their female friends. But friends can’t visit other friends in intensive care. If you say you lost your husband, people know that you are devastated, but if you lost your friend, oh well, that’s a shame; the loss of a friend doesn’t seem to be in the same category as losing a spouse, although sometimes, we feel more intimate and more connected to that friend of 30 years than our husband of seven years.

Lastly, I think women’s fiction should have different moods, just the way women do. Sometimes I’m in the mood to curl up with “The Real Housewives of New York City” or “90 Day Fiancé,” and other times I want something with more substance like “House of Cards” or “Designated Survivor.” That’s because I have different moods. We all do. And I don’t think “House of Cards” is better than “Real Housewives.” It’s just a different genre. Sometimes we just want to dig into “chick lit,” which I would define as “women’s fiction light.” And that’s okay. Sophia Kinsella has made a fortune writing lightweight books about women and girls. You can’t exactly compare her to Simone de Beauvoir, but we shouldn’t. Kinsella shines in her own lane.

There is lots of room in the women’s fiction department to include different styles, issues, depth, substance, etc. The most important thing about women’s fiction is that, like any other type of book, it should be entertaining. We read to get away from our day-to-day routines, to get into somebody else’s life and head, to be illuminated, provoked, amused, scared, or biting our nails on the edge of our seat of a good thriller. Good women’s fiction makes us ask ourselves important questions as we try to empathize with other women’s experiences.

All the best,


And, now, here is the story.


Finding Lisa is a character driven story about a quirky Canadian woman named Tara BookCover_FindingLisawho is about to turn 40. She dreads the thought. Everything is going wrong in her life from her stale marriage to her boring job to her hopeless crush on a 24-year-old guy. The only thing right in Tara’s life is her best friend Lisa who has just confided that she is pregnant and the baby does not belong to her partner Ryan, who has a history of domestic violence. Then Lisa disappears and the search is on to find her.

And a sample of it.

All the carts were taken at the supermarket on Tuesday. I found one off to the side of the vegetable aisle. It had a defective wheel, which resulted in me almost overturning a display of cantaloupes. The cart was also enormous. No doubt this was a deliberate ploy on the part of the supermarket to encourage excess shopping.

“I feel as though I’m driving a school bus,” I announced to the frail, pale orange-haired woman to my left, who was squeezing the small, unappetizing looking cantaloupes.

She smiled faintly and nodded. I wondered how she had the strength to push the heavy cart through the long aisles of the grocery store at her age.

“Mum, I’ll go with you to one of those Women against Rape meetings if you want?”  Devon said to my astonishment, his voice rising at the end of his sentence. “There’s only one condition. You have to watch 8 Mile with me.”

“8 Mile? Isn’t that the movie based on the book by Stephen King?”

“Nah, you’re thinking about The Green Mile,” Devon replied. “8 Mile is the story of a rapper in Detroit. It’s based on the life of Eminem, whose real name is Marshall Mathers. Eminem even stars in it,” he said with increasing enthusiasm.

“I think it’ll give you a better idea of where he’s coming from. You know, you’re always talking about these girls who’ve been, like, abused and what horrible lives they’ve had. You even feel bad about boys who were taken advantage of by priests or their hockey coaches. So why don’t you have any sympathy for Marshall? His mother was abusive. She was mean to him, and she did drugs! Also, she, like, gave him something called Munchkins syndrome,” Devon added uncertainly.

“Munchausen syndrome?” I asked, trying to picture the tough guy with the tattoos and bad attitude as a small child with a manipulative and controlling mother.

“Yeah, that sounds right. She made him feel sick when he was totally healthy. And, Mum, I know you would respect the way Em felt about his little brother, Nathan. He, like, didn’t wanna leave him alone in the house with his mother when he finally split from Detroit. He’s also really keen about his daughter, Hailie Jade. He talks about her all the time in his songs and on TV.”

I pushed the buttons on the radio. The Steve Miller band was singing, “Time keeps on slipping, slipping into the future.” I had a sense of motion. The car was moving forward, and with every traffic light I passed, I was moving farther away from Lisa and our routine evenings at the ByTowne Theatre. The rest of us were going ahead, and Lisa had been left behind. I wanted to go back, not just to last Thursday night, but to my university days, so I could live my life all over again.

I wanted to be sixteen or twenty-six again, making decisions based on what I knew now. So many lost opportunities. How had I managed to completely screw up my life? I’d done everything wrong except that I hadn’t become a street prostitute or a serial murderer. Too late for the former—who would want me? But there was still time for the latter.

Let’s learn more about the author–

AuthorPictureOriginally from New Jersey, Sigrid Macdonald lived for almost thirty years in Ottawa, Ontario, and currently resides in Weston, Florida. She has been a freelance writer for years. Her works have appeared in The Globe and Mail newspaper; the Women’s Freedom Network Newsletter; the American magazine Justice Denied; The Toastmaster; and the Anxiety Disorders Association of Ontario Newsletter. Her first book, Getting Hip: Recovery from a Total Hip Replacement, was published in 2004. Her second book, Be Your Own Editor, followed in 2010. Although Finding Lisa is written in first person, Macdonald only resembles her character in the sense that she once had a neurotic fixation on her hair, and she has always been called by the wrong name; instead of being called Sigrid, people have called her Susan, Sharon, Astrid, Ingrid and, her personal favorite, Siri.

Macdonald is a social activist who has spent decades working on the seemingly disparate issues of women’s rights and wrongful convictions; she has worked at the Women’s Center at Ramapo College of New Jersey and Carleton University in Ottawa, Ontario, and was a member of AIDWYC, The Association in Defense of the Wrongly Convicted. She owns an editing company called Book Magic. Sigrid is a public speaker and a member of Mothers against Drunk Driving, Ottawa Independent Writers, the American Association of University Women, and the Editors’ Association of Canada. Visit her website at or friend her on Facebook:


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About Theresa Stillwagon

Life is a journey, filled with ups and downs, lefts and rights. Life would be meaningless if it came to us easily. This is my story of a writer's life. Disappointment and rejection, learning and growing, never giving up. That is what my life means. Traditional romances with a Sensual Edge!
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11 Responses to One Author’s Definition

    • Sigrid Macdonald says:

      Thank you for suggesting this website, GFP, and many thanks to Theresa for having me 🙂

      Theresa, what is your favorite book in the mystery genre? You can name more than one. Whenever people ask me things like that, I have a hard time limiting it to one book!

      Best, Sigrid

  1. Victoria Alexander says:

    Thanks for sharing!

  2. James Robert says:

    It has been great hearing about your book and although I am not the reader myself, my 2 sisters and 2 daughters are. They love hearing about the genre’s they like and me helping them get to find books they will enjoy. Thanks for sharing!

    • Sigrid Macdonald says:

      Hi James, it’s Sigrid, the author. Thanks for your kind comments. That would be great if you could recommend the book to the women and girls in your life. It has a strong female protagonist, but I put her in a very difficult situation so it’s hard to know whether she makes the right choices in life. Makes for good conversation after reading! All the best, Sigrid

  3. I hope that your book is a success.

  4. Rita Wray says:

    Sounds like a good book.

  5. “Finding Lisa is a character driven story about a quirky Canadian woman named Tara who is about to turn 40. She dreads the thought.”

    I can relate. That happened to me too many years ago, lol. Thanks for the giveaway!

  6. carylkane says:

    Sounds like a must read!

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